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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

How to Stop Romanticizing the Narcissist Who Hurt You

You’re not missing the narcissist.You’re missing the illusion of love. As an expert narcissistic abuse counselor who understands how the mind holds onto the illusion as a way to avoid the full weight of what actually happened. There’s a part of you that still clings to the warmth in their smile…The way they used to… Continue reading How to Stop Romanticizing the Narcissist Who Hurt You

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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

What Happens When You Block the Narcissist

The Blocktober Awakening: What Really Happens When You Block the Narcissist Because it’s not just a boundary.It’s a breaking of the cycle. When blocking someone still feels like betrayal You didn’t want to block them.Not because they deserved access,But because you were still the one holding hope. Maybe for closure.Perhaps for an apology.Possibly for the… Continue reading What Happens When You Block the Narcissist

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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Letting Go of the Narcissist: A Sacred Return to Yourself

You’ve tried.You’ve hoped.You’ve waited for closure from the narcissist that never came. There’s a kind of grief that doesn’t show up in neat stages. It loops and lingers. It makes you question your sanity, while you quietly unravel behind closed doors. This is what it feels like when you're trying to let go of someone… Continue reading Letting Go of the Narcissist: A Sacred Return to Yourself